Yes, that is a 180 for me. I am used to appeasing him but at the same time he would always say I was "mean" probably because I was angry during our relationship because he treated me like a doormat.
So, I want to be able to convey both effectively which is the challenge.
Maybe I could do a combo of emails - anyone is welcome to offer additional email suggestions. I want to feel confident when sending and would like more input from the vets.
I'm just really confused. This is how he always gets me. He is acting so nice but then going behind my back and doing really disrepectful things. I don't want to be angry and I dont want my email to come across as cold or angry but also dont want to be a doormat.
It's really hard because I want to be the nice, confident, outgoing , beautiful woman he fell in love with but at the same time I don't want to be his personal doormat. I feel like he takes advantage of me.
