I just can't get over the similarities in the comments that MLCrs make / how did I go so long not even knowing this level of disturba nce existed? I have lots of questions...
It is really amazing to me still the similarities, but they do exist and as time passes, and you read more, you will begin to recognize things for what they are as they happen.
Originally Posted By: Irishblessings
So today I set boundary / now he keeps texting me telling me where he is - where he's going. I don't respond. Why is he doing this?
My H and I am sure others, went through a phase like this.
It falls into the area of wanting us but not wanting us.
Now that you have stated your boundary, he is testing that. Trying to be nice to see if you are resolute.
This is probably something you will encounter more than once and you have to do your best to not let it make you crazy.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox