Here's an update on my recent crisis. I believe I told you my house was listed in the newspaper for a sheriff's sale for July 9th. For the past week I have been attempting to have a conversation with my h about options. He has refused every attempt. He will not reply to voice mail messages or text messages. Although, he at least has not called the police on me again.

Today I drove up by his place to see if he was home. His car was there, but sometimes he gets a ride with another co-worker to and from work. I drove around the block and when I came back, his "friend" was parked there. I sent him a text again and told him I only wanted to talk to him and it was important. Again, no reply.

Him not replying at all and giving me the silent treatment gives him complete, total control in this situation and I'm sure he's enjoying it. And I hate that it's getting to me. But, I am in a time crunch and I just don't have time for these childish games. If I can't get an extension, have h agree to look into the programs to save homes, or some other miracle, I will be homeless in a month. I have nowhere to go and my daughter lives with me, plus our 2 dogs, so we'll all be out in the street.

I feel like I'm in the Twilight Zone and there is no waking up from this nightmare. This is certainly not my husband doing this because he would never be so cruel or callous about his family.

This Saturday I have actually been invited to his brother's place for a graduation party. His family had previously written me off, but have come around to believe me that there is something seriously wrong with h. They were led to believe from him that we just grew apart and were divorcing. Now, they realize he changed overnight and abandoned us. So, I am anxious to visit with them and see what they have to say about our new crisis and h avoiding me.

I understand h not wanting to face me, but right now I feel like telling him too bad, too sad. I have no idea how I am going to get him to stop acting like a child by refusing to talk to me, but I need to ASAP. Our final divorce date is not until Nov. 9th and I can't wait that long to get spousal support. Of course, I don't want a divorce at all and would much rather have him move home and we work on everything. I know with God all things are possible, so I'm not throwing that idea out.

I just know that if we wind up losing everything and I am in the streets, he will regret everything he's done and realize he destroyed his own family. I think the guilt will be too much for him.

I appreciate all of your prayers. I need a miracle, a plan, a solution, I need help!!! smile And, I so need my husband. The one that is buried beneath the alien that's taken over his body. Interesting isn't it, that the one I want to run to and have hold me and tell me everything will be alright is the one I want to shake and yell at?