She called today to tell me that she has had her lawyer here (not in New England)draft legal separation paperwork. She was crying and said she loves me and doesn't want to hurt me she just feels like she needs to protect herself financially. She wants me to buy her out of the house and she's asking for a reasonable child support. She said, "this doesn't mean this has to end in divorce."
Again, just saying what she needs to say to keep me docile.
Ironically, we have an offer on the house as of today.
She also informs me that she will be out of town with her parents and our son this weekend and next. I won't see them or him this weekend nor over Father's Day weekend. I spent over a thousand dollars to ensure he was with his Mom over Mother's Day. Now, I won't see him over Father's Day.
She also tells me she's not opposed to me staying at their place on my weekends visiting.
So...I'm going to approach this weekend as best I can. I'll go up there to do what I intended to do that does not include them and then I'll come home. I'll have my attorney draft a "post nuptial" agreement as a response rather than a separation agreement. Or..I just won't respond at all. I want to delay this.
