I still want a detailed report on what she said after you texted. Her words.
"I'm headed up there tomorrow AM."
Be safe.
"10 days ago she agreed to dinner."
This is what it needs to be.
"Don't know what she'll agree to now."
Listen.. if she says.. I don't want to go.. just be ok with it. Just say that you understand.. and be on your way. If you wanna sugar coat it tell her "I understand.. honey" and give her a little hug. Then get in your car and leave. Vent here..
"Casual dinner and a card."
Drop the card. While you are driving.. I want you to think of something creative.. heartfelt. You know her.. anyone can get a card.. and write something sappy in it. You cannot spend more than the cost of a card and envelope on this. So.. 2-3 bucks.
If.. she declines dinner.. Do the above stuff about saying you understand. And give her the gift anyway.
Again.. come and vent here.
Be creative! Don't chase. Show her what she is walking away from. Let her make the choice to come back.
Imagine it is the "hot girl" from high school you got a date with. You got the date cause you put her in an awkward position and she had to say yes. She intended to shoot you down at the door.
Make her rethink her position with your actions. Show her she is making a bad choice.
You don't need her.
You want her to make a choice.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
