What does this mean?- the WH's regrets?

[Piano]

Hi G, sorry I've been gone a day or two. Don't worry, she'll come when she is ready!
Good about WH cancelling camping trip (duh) and sorry he hasn't texted. Lowlife! (sorry, that's harsh, but calling a spade a spade).
I'm not on FB. Should I be? Is DB FB group a good one?
(hugs)

[newmama]

Oh my oh my! If I don't see you post around your due date, I am going to be thinking maybe you are giving birth!!!! I hope you are!!

[gatsby11]

Nope, not yet. My mom is coming here in about 30 minutes, though, and then I won't be on here as much.

But, like I said, I'll let you know when it starts!

Piano, yes you should be on Facebook! But that's because I feel like everyone should be, ha! I don't know what the FB DB group is like. But, NM, I did find ya! S is cute and it's nice to see you in real life!

There's a lot of familiar names and then some that I don't recognize.

I don't think I'll join, just because I'm a paranoid person. But it might be neat to find each other, guys!

[gatsby11]

Oh, and I forgot to say that (phew, I am having contractions-- not sure if they're regular, okay that one just passed yay!)

I forgot to say that WH texted to ask me how I was and I wrote back fine and he wrote back do I need anything.

So I sent a joke-- " a million dollars, good weather, and a trip to a new city!" and he wrote back that he will be working on it with a smiley face. yeah, that was me trying to be more approachable.

Then I had to call him about 15 minutes ago to figure out a computer thing. (What his administrator password was so I could set up a guest account.) He couldn't remember, but he offered to stop by to figure it out. I said I couldn't think of a good time. He said anytime. Honestly, there is not a good time now that my mom is in town. So I just mumbled something. Then we said our goodbyes. He seemed a little offended that I turned him down, though! Ha ha , so ironic.

K, that's it for now. Ciao!

[Babydoll]

Glad he sent a text. Im an not picking up for your H at all, so please dont take this the wrong way. i think our H doesnt know how to approach you or be there for you. Now, that is not your problem, and what he should be working on with his IC, but i cant help but think that. I feel that WAS, are rotten and disgusting and so wrong on so many levels, but i also think they remove themselves so well, they dont know how to be normal and be friendly back. If they are too friendly they are teasing you or giving you wrong signals... if they are aloof, they are A$$holes for not caring more... him wanting to help you with your computer is just a way for him to show he cares in his own F'd up way. still not good enough, but its there.

Contractions!!! OH YAY!!!! I agree with NM, if we dont see you posting i'm assuming you are in labor! so please try and sneak on here when your moms in the shower or something and keep us posted! if not... LOTS OF LUCK!!! Hope the delivery is a wonderful experience for you...

[newmama]

I liked what you said back to WH-tried to lighten the mood a little, eh?

my oh my let the contractions begin! Oh and wait a minute- you ARE letting your mom stay with you?

do you have any rules for those in the birthing room? I told WH and my mom TO NOT tell me to push! The labor nurse did plenty of that! And I actually did need help breathing- how funny- and squeezed the hell out of WH's hand (wish I sprained some fingers, haha!)

About FB- yes I have photos but I don't think my name is anywhere or my town. (Newmama is NOT my real name! j/k!)

But I figure if someone in the DB group knows me, it's cool.

So you can put a fake name up and then pics of your baby? Piano too! And babydoll! I need a new photo-that one is now 4 months old and 20 pounds heavier!

[Piano]

thinking of you, G... and hope those contractions deliver your little girl sometime soon!! Enjoy this moment...savour every second with her when you meet her....you won't want to forget it. Take photos!!! And make sure you get immediate skin to skin contact, no matter what turn the birth takes. It's the most delicious hour or so after birth...
Can't wait to see if you post again soon!!!

[gatsby11]

Hey guys, this *might* be the real thing. A bit of bloody show, more irregular contractions. . . going to try to go to bed though. . .

I agree BD, thanks NM and P!

I might write again later, we'll see!

[gatsby11]

Didn't go to bed yet; took a shower.

WAnted to say, NM, that my mom isn't staying with me! She's subletting an apt in my complex though. She will probably spend the night a few times when the baby gets here.

I just thought of that in the shower, thought I'd clarify. see ya!

[newmama]

lol Gatsby! The shower is an amazing place to tap into our subconscious. Wonder why?

Gee, maybe your baby will be born a day after her due date!!