Most of his stuff is gone. clothes, computer, etc. It would take weeks to pack up his office. I did set up the Wii and other workout stuff in there tho. He saw that the time he was here.
If I tell him I am done waiting, he would allow a D and start a pity party for himself.
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+you could think of ways to help him dump her- he feels obligated to her--ha! he feels trapped and stuck???
Not sure how! I feel like he is looking for me to toss him a life-preserver. But...I would have to do a 180 back and possibly invite cake-eating again.
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+you let everything go to sh!t so he sees you need him
Nah...not me at all!!!
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+you ask to go with him to his counselor
WAY to scary!
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Don't you see your power actually- he admitted he wants you and the family.
This didn't occur to me! If this is true, and it makes sense, I should do nothing. Or rather, keep doing what I have been doing. If he truly wants home, I gave him a life-line in re-stating my position. Right?
"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread