OK, I've read the intro and the first chapter which tells you about the five phases. How come I don't recognize any of them? I must be really f@cked up! Alright, I do remember "shattered" but it was a long time ago. I did get angry when she wanted the car...she didn't get it. Um, I really am f@cked up! Maybe I'll just suck back some codeine cough syrup and pass out...hey, somewhere in that chapter it mentioned abandonment and addictions. Whew, I was scared for a minute that there really was something wrong with me. I feel better now. Good night Dbers.