My WH is career military,and can become a drill sergeant from hell when he wants, but except for these instances of MLC, he didn't unleash this on me unless he was drunk. Physically, he has lost between 50-60 pounds and looks like 'hammered [censored]' to quote our daughter. His legs are sticks, and he looks like a bum. I had my lawyer issue a no contact except through the lawyer action on him. His texts are attempts to keep tabs on you. I believe 'going dark' is the term called for here. Unless it pertains to the kids, finances, emergency, let him text his fingers off. You don't have to respond.