Well I did expose it and learned some very nasty heartbreaking details Timeheals. The OM Wife suspected something, and advised that OM told her that WAW did the following insane things.
WAW asked for sex on her period to OM, showed OM some pics of her that only I have seen where she is wearing underwear. She advised that WAW also was causing a ruckus with her, because she had messaged WAW on facebook, and my WAW got rude with her and even blocked her on facebook.
WAW told OM Wife that she was lucky that she believed they were an item if it made her want to come back to her Husband.
She also told OM W that they were really just close friends, and that she has several adult partners boyfriends. UGHHH I am not really sure how true that is and maybe was a smokescreen or something. I dont know what to believe.
WAW ended up calling me and well I told her that Id like full custody or reconciliation, she said to me " WE ARE OVER " was very mean, said I had hurt her beyond belief and that we are over. I said I had made changes i know big mistake, emotion took over, and she said Ill never Love you again, that I need to go get laid or find someone else.
She said she had a boyfriend also, which if she means OM i get it. She never did verify it but I am not stupid. I then said well, I want full custody, and she blew her top. She started threatning my other daughter and saying she would cause my dad problems because he is old and has a bad heart.
She even said she would go get pregnant again, she just knows how to push my buttons. I am so devastated.
Eventually she did start to calm and said she would consider SHARED CUSTODY, No Child Support or Health Insurance, and that we could work to being civil friends, but that i should not expect her to ever want to come back to me.
I told her I would think about it, and well I think this is a good idea really, but man after all the craziness she is now causing with someone elses marriage, mooching money off OMs Mom, and not paying her bills, she has finally lost it.
I think Shared would be the best, but if she is rotating guys in and out, making death threats, wrecking other marriages, and causing more drama then humanly possible I just dont know.
She used to be so sweet and kind to me. And now she is the devil, and has been for 3 months.
M 36 W 29 Together 2 1/2 years married 14 months Daughter 15 months Bomb 4/22/10 Separated since 4/25/10 OM 6/10/10 Hopeful, but moving on