You aern't gonna talk sense to this woman, her parents and family are.. and her freinds.. YOU educate them with that video and let THEM get HER gonig to family therapy...
You just keep working on the house to make it someplace she wants to be...
Hold onto those emotions man.. give her zero.. make her FIGHT for them and WORK for them a few weeks... it gets her chasing you again... which is what we want.. it awakens those emotions she's been suppressing for a while now...
If you have to say something and she's pestering you :
"I would like to work on my home please"
Or if she asks a stupid obvious qustion like "What's bothering you?"
Just look at her, not angry, just look at her... let her READ in your eyes taht she's been a selfish bitch for weeks and you aren't gonna tolerate it anymore...
She will likley walk away in shame... or continue to play dumb.. I've personally seen both responses.. both are ok results
