W and I went out and got invitation for party and set a date. It is june 26th. W purchased little things for the house. I am trying to make things as smooth as possible and a great interaction between us.

W and I were talking when we got home about how we should word the invitations then W said

"I want it to be a house warming/birthday party" I told W "whatever ypu think is best, either way we will make it happen"

W then said "it's just that it will be my family's first time seeing the house so we should do it as a house warming party as well" I said "sounds like a good idea"

W then said " I don't want them (W family) think we are shutting them out"

I hope this is all for the better of our sitch. Who knows if W will revert back to full WAS mode after the party and still threaten to leave.

W has been using sounds to communicate far less. When she does I simply tell her that I cannot hear/understand her but she has not done it enough to warrant an actual talk about it. There are times where she does use sounds/body language to communicate with me but nothing to make a fuss about.

Before I left for work I said "goodnight" to W and I got no response I then sai "bye" and W said bye in return with a tone and facial expression as if she had said it three times already.

And PDT I am not sure if she is sick or "sick" but I can say she has been like this for 10 years but who knows...


M: 27, W: 25
Together since: 01/31/00
M: 10/4/09 (8 Months)
ILBNILWY: 01/24/10
EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted).
Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10
Retrouvaille: 09/10/10