you want him NOW to feel like he has NO CONTROL and you could do ANYTHING at ANY MINUTE...
Yeah- like YOU are deciding and choosing to stay in the M, not him!! Arghh..wish I had this DB forum last year!!!
Actually, you can have a little fun with this- change things up, surprise him with last minute change of plans, random texts or phone calls, a totally different shirt than you normally wear, just want to keep him on his toes! And have the air like you will not bat an eyelash if he says he wants to divorce.
"Actually, you beat me to it. I was just going to let you know that I decided I can't trust you and deserve a husband who is willing to choose our family over some other woman. So yeah, I totally agree we need to divorce."
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
