1. Do NOT be openly desperate or needy even when you are hurting more than eevr in your whole life and are desperate and needy. 2. Do NOT focus on yourself when communicating with your spouse. 3. Do NOT believe any of what you hear and less than 50% of what you see. Your spouse will speak in absolute negatives because s/he is hurting and scared. 4. Do NOT give up no matter how dark it is or how bad you feel. 5. Do NOT backslide from your hard-earned changes.
Do you see number THREE? Let me post it here again for you :
3. Do NOT believe any of what you hear and less than 50% of what you see. Your spouse will speak in absolute negatives because s/he is hurting and scared.
You need to get control of yourself or you are screwed... seriously.. get control of yourself and stay away from this addict.
You are going to download that sucker Then you are going to copy it to a laptop and take it to all your exposure group.. especially the people your wife cowardly emailed...
do NOT show this to your WIFE
I REPEAT... do NOT show this to your wife...
This video will do 95% of your exposure work FOR YOU.. do you hear me? This video will do 95% of your exposure work FOR you...
Watch it someplace OUT of the HOME... at a library or something I don't care...
Go buy that cell phone jammer.. NOW
You can't fight an affair when you are exhausted... Your wife is keeping YOU awake so you are too tired to fight her addiction... get your ARSE in GEAR and find your BALLS man.
Go watch the video, post comments back here, and make appointments with your friends family (exposure group) and show them the video too...
