I still think you should let yourself mourn the loss of the marriage...it will help you to detach and move forward. Because if you reconcile, it will be a new marriage anyway! And I can tell you that today I feel 1000x better than I have since this whole thing started because I have truly accepted that my marriage MAY end. (still have hope!)
Yeah, let's see how your WH loves living over there and how OW will get sick of his whining about missing his baby and how hard it is to find a job... She is young and pretty, right? Why take on a man with so much baggage and no job? Who is capable of leaving his PREGNANT wife?? arghhh!


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004