No longer "stuck808". Now my name is Bond. "MrBond

[MrBond]

Well first off there is no R around where we live so we'd have to hop a plane to go to one and the cost would be out of the question.

Then there's the A. In her case, I really believe the A was a way to "feel" something. Of course he turned out to be Dr. Douche, but after it stopped over two years ago, she hasn't gone out much. Dating or otherwise. She really isn't looking for anything right now as if she doesn't have a plan.

I told her that she needed to stop running away and start making decisions. It's like she's stuck in paralysis right now and can't make a decision. I mean she says she wants "out" but I think what she really wants is for the pain to go away. What is that pain? I have no idea.

It doesn't help much when her family is enabling her and pushing for her to D. It really did piss me off when her mom told our D that "mommy's not coming home". It really isn't any of her damn business.