don't know what to believe: a woman conflicted over wanting a D with the loss of friends, family, etc., or a deceiptful spouse who is emotionally tied up with married OM, and is leaning on him hard core for support. The former suggests I be patient, the latter suggests I should kick her out and move on immmediately.
Who says somebody who wants a divorce can't be weepy and going through their own version of grief?
This is why relationships that start in affairs rarely pan out well. She's in that R and still has huge amounts of baggage from this R, and one day--if things go the way she is planning now--she is going to wake up and realize the only thing that drew her to the OM was the problems in your R, and that's going to be gone, so what is going to be the new glue to hold them together.
Right now the problems between you and she are the only thing keeping them together based on the way you describe things.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
