MSM, There is an old saying that I live by "Meat is for the man, bone is for the dog!" Said with an Eastern European accent, it's perfect.

I am not a chubby chaser, however I do like a little extra on a woman. Curvy = Sexy!

W wieghed between 150-165 over our twenty years and every day complained about her weight. Last year, she joined a gym to feel & look better. My insecurity told me, "Great, just what I need. She'll get thin & hot and dump me." Well 4 sizes later I was right. Not that I am fat, but I do love beer & wings! So, for the last year I have been excersizing at home (something I never did) maintaining around 200# on 6' frame. Well, 5 weeks ago she asked me to leave. Today I weighed in at 188! Great weight loss plan huh!

Do whatever YOU feel comfortable with. Ultimately it's all about you!
Jimmer