Darn, my post got messed up.
Basically I stated my experience was that my hubby stated for months that he really, truly was done with me and there was nothing left. A weaker person would have given up- I persisted and did not waver in my attempt at healing the marriage. Eventually his script was the same but I saw small signs from him that lead me to believe otherwise.


M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)