Just Confronted - A Litttle Confused

[DownNotOut...yet]

I have read repeatedly, the ILYBAMILWY is the direct result of a EA/PA, and causes the WAW to rewrite history to make justifications.

You answered your own question.

Sometimes it is not even to make justifications. Have you never gone to bed drunk, feeling or thinking one way, only to wake up in the morning, knowing what you thought, did, or said was not reality?

I think sometimes, perhaps even often, these waywards get so whacked out on affair high, they just plain rewrite history. They actually believe the crap they are saying. This was absolutely the case in my house.