Just Confronted - A Litttle Confused

[Ready2Change]

She repeatedly insists that the Marriage was 200% over in the beginning of May.

Did you validate or argue your POV?

There was absolutely no going back for her.

Feelings change, but this IS how SHE FEELS.

"I don't love you like a Husband, and I haven't for a while now".

Than you have work to do. STOP CHASING AFTER THIS WOMAN. That looks PATHETIC and makes you LESS attractive. STAND UP TO HER NICELY.

She said she reached her "breaking point" right then.

So everything you were doing needs to be examined. Step away and become the NEW YOU. 180's.

She felt unappreciated and not very sexy and began talking with a married guy about marital problems. One thing led to another, bam emotional/sex chat affair and nude pics. She didn't feel bad because she ALREADY knew she was going to divorce me.

This man LISTENED to her. This man seduced her. This man was meeting her needs.

Is is possible any of this is true, or is she just re-writing marital history and justifying what she knows to be wrong?

Do not focus your energy on this.

MWD writes in DR that some spouses are truly too far gone to do ANYTHING about, and that you really can't apply anything to them. But she also says you can't tell the difference.

CORRECT. Just start making POSITIVE CHANGE to YOU......

Your wife is going to TEST YOU. THIS IS A TEST. Do you want to fail the test? This test is REAL.

DO NOT BE NEEDY and pursue your wife. You need to draw her back by all the changes.

Go buy some new clothes. Go get a new hair style. Go get some new friends. If they are hot babes, great! Can you walk up to hot women and give them compliments and carry a good conversation?