(((HUGS))) As soon as your WH's crap is out of the apartment, and you get in a little routine with your baby, there will be a strange sense of relief that he is out of your life. I mean the current WH. Of course we expect you will be terribly sad and mourn the loss of your marriage, as you should! But post away here and we will support you!
It is winter, there, right? And you get to snuggle up with your baby girl!
So here is a good time to mention some positives I found about not having H around while taking care of S:
+you don't have to worry about neglecting H's needs
+you don't have to worry about feeling bad for turning down LM because you're so tired
+you don't have to worry about shaving your legs (if that is something you do)
+you don't have to worry about having milk all over you and spit up and being grouchy/depressed from hormones and still trying to stay in a decent mood
I'm sure there is more than I listed!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004