Just Confronted - A Litttle Confused

[Ready2Change]

Hi QS,

Do you own the movie 300? Watch it tonight. Study how King Leonidas RESPONDS to everything. Listen to his tone and his words. Be Leonidas.

But in another post in this thread you advised to "make the home inviting". You mean by carrying my fair share and more around here? And just being a happy, fun-loving person that enjoys life and does not tick off his wife in any way?

Can I do that while still being detached? And what are going Dim/Dark, and are they applicable in this situation.

Do these things for YOU. Move forward and "Act as if" she is already gone. Do you like where your bed is? If not, move it to where you want it. Do you like the sheets? If not, go by ones you like. "I am sorry you feel that way" is a very good response to any venom coming from W.