No longer "stuck808". Now my name is Bond. "MrBond

[MrBond]

I think she cares for my feelings, but she isn't the type to ask or express herself. She doesn't even do it with the kids. She's the type that would rather buy something to smooth things over.

My goal is to R and she knows this. I've asked her before what her goals were but she just kept saying "I don't know."

I think when we're not together she's a little happier, but as a whole she's depressed. When we're not together, she pretty much spends her time alone at her sister's place watching tv. She doesn't have any close friends, just her mom and her sister.

I've mentioned counseling to her both alone and together, and she just said "thanks" but no commitment.

This is what limbo really means. I've done both the going dark and the keeping in contact with her. The keeping in contact has gotten me the best response so far.

But how do you shake someone to "feel" something. Anything.