Quote: I would NEVER complain about my wifes weight. That is not all that important. Sexy is all about your attitude, but looking sexy can cause you to feel sexy. Not that I would say you need to lose weight, but I know for both the men and women in a marriage, it does say I care enough to try and be the person you married. I guess it is important to stay in reasonable shape and try to stay healthy, but being perfect is also not required. Most importantly, what makes YOU feel good about yourself?
Just for information, the women on TV are way to THIN. THe average man PREFERS curves. Women think they have to be about 3 sizes to small. I saw a study where they gave men sillouttes and asked them to pick the perfect female form. They ended up choosing the Marilyn Monroe figure as most sexy, and guess what, SHE WAS A SIZE 10. None of these size 1 and even size 0 dresses.
I think she was actually a size 12 (the average womans size today) but don't hold me to that...I myself have always been a size 10 but then again I am 5'8 so much smaller than that and I'd look anorexic as I heard from so many people during my bomb diet (the unintentional weight you loose when your spouse wants out)
in regard to feeling sexy as a result of feeling better about yourself or just accepting that you are...
I warn any woman who thinks that weight may perhaps be behind their h's lack of desire...if you loose weight make damn sure you are doing it becuase you want for yourself and be prepared to deal with feeling even more sexy and then resentful over the fact that those thoughts and feelings are not always acted upon by your spouse even if they do happen to agree.
