I've got to agree with CeMar. Most men prefer curves. I know I do. It seems to me that we are all saying the same thing here. If you love your SO, then looks aren't at the top of the needs list, but it would be nice to have a SO in shape.
MsM; You should not "lose the weight" if you're comfortable with it. Remember, DB is not about the WAS,it's about yourself. If you want to change, go for it, if it will make you feel good. From my experience, if an R is in trouble, there never is just 1 problem that needs fixing. Sorry if this sounds cruel, but i would advise you too search a bit deeper before rushing down a single path. Take care of yourself first.. good luck..D-
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