I have a hard time with her being the one who requested that the two of you go to MC, but then during the session she tells the counselor "I'm done". What's up with that? If that's the case, why did you suggest counseling, woman?
I suggested it about 6 mos. ago and she wanted nothing to do with it. It took me exposing things to her parents and brothers and sisters and her throwing a fit about my doing so for her to bring up us going to MC. BTW, she told the counselor when I told her family, that was when she lost all respect for me. Anyway, I always had the feeling she was just going to be able to say "she tried".
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Quiet with regard to the OM doesn't necessarily mean anything. It could be she is being more careful with the communication. I got my hopes up in this way myself, all for naught.
I am well aware of this.
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I don't see her doing anything else without prompting from you. If she was serious about counseling and applying the lessons learned there, it would be pretty obvious to you.
I guess this is my main question. How much prompting? How much pushing? Do I just go ahead and retain a L and file myself?
I want to do things right. I'm not afraid of losing her but don't want to push her farther away, if that makes sense.
Thanks, as always for the reply, Pigskin. I hope things are well with you.
