Thanks CityGril. How have you been? Is your H still texting you or is he leaving you alone?

Yes, I think that my W is not doing as wonderful as she lets everyone think. I remember when my W and I were under so much stress when I closed my company. We would go over to her family's house and they would have no idea that we were so stressed. After they knew the problems of the company and its affects on us, they said they had no idea because we both seemed so happy whenever they saw us. We hid it very well. I think she continues to hide her feelings. I agree that she tries to justify her actions to people.

Funny you mention her maybe not having something rectified within her. Mutual friends, some of her family and my neighbor (who she talked to and cried for a half hour) have all told me that my W said she had to do this for her and it's something inside her she has to work on. I have no idea what that's supposed to mean?

Anyway, looking forward to the soccer party. Bunch of crazy soccer fans. They're all guys I play soccer with so it should be a blast.


M 38
WAW 36
Together 19 years
Married 12 years
Bomb/Separated Oct. 09
I love my wife
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