Ok, now I know that at least I can do something that may help my marriage and my own sense of self pride. I used to be a very hot woman, and since before I met my husband and specially after we got married, I am heavier that I have ever been, not obese, but definitely chunky.
I don't think wanting a shapely wife is shallow, if the whole sex stops just because of it, THEN it is shallow.
I now is not very politically correct to say what you did say guys, and I really love you for that, because I needed to hear the reality of it, not what should be the "right answer" in this overly touchy society.
If it is okey to be OK with being chunky, I should be ok with NOT being okey about it too, right? that is the beauty of freedom. Well, If my weight is adding to the sex problem on my marriage (how silly I was to think I couldn't do anything about my sit), then, the weight will go!
I know, I am going to end up with a LD husband anyway, but at least I am going to be more confident when I approach him when the time is right!
