Just found out she already filed

[ImprovedRomeo]

Thanks guys.

Kerry's advice is right on based on what she's said and goes hand in hand with what Alice said about her using the L to get what she wants.

Alice, I believe the word she's using is 'cleared up' not 'settled' but I see what you're saying here. I didn't see the final version of the letter my L sent to her but in the draft it clearly stated I could no longer afford a private school. Then again she could be clueless and thinks I should be able to afford the school. Second, there is a question about the district because there's our school district where we live(d) and there's a different one where she's renting. But I will push for the district where I am because that's where DD would've gone had we not separated (and if we couldn't afford private school). I'm afraid she's going to push for her school district. Thanks for the actual wording...I have the hardest time with writing stuff to her so it helps me out big time when I see it written.

Wii, you're right it doesn't matter who's idea it was it's just hard to trust her on it now because she proved that she's only interested in doing things that are in her interest and when they suit her. She just pretends to be reasonable.

I wonder why she's being all snippy lately. Maybe my going dark is bothering her because I don't jump to respond to her and she feels that she doesn't have a lot of control over me anymore as I've started to let things go.