Did I miss the part where he stated he wanted to work on the marriage, and is taking steps toward reconciliation ?
Cause up till that point, your focus should be entirely on yourself and healing for you.
How much have you read on MLC and its affects on the LBS ?
And the path of the LBS?
Where would I find these? And no, you are right,no talk of reconciliation. Thanks, your post,as well as the others today,were helpful in re-centering. It's been too much about him in my mind and not enough about me. I just feel so lost in where to go from here