I think it's OK to let go

[TimeHeals]

Journaling:

Reading your posts in between work meetings.

Reading about folks getting served and still holding out hope. Must be really tough when you have kids.

I know that just watching my oldest dog when he still (almost a month later) waits for W at night makes me sad for him sometimes.

For me, I have just had to accept what is happening. Believe me, I had all of those discussions: end EA or move out; I want to work on this M, but I will not do it alone; etc.

All for naught. My W was in a hurry to file once she moved out, and fighting what she presented (she wants nothing) could only wind up costing us both lots of money.

So my L says late July/early August D will be final, but I can't remarry by TN law until September