DETACH... If you are nice to your wife the implied message you send is that you APPROVE and CONSENT to her AFFAIRs and her LIES
Just give her the silent treatment.. don't be mean, but don't put your emotions out there...
Think Mr Spock... POKER FACE.. always a poker face on that vulcan!
But in another post in this thread you advised to "make the home inviting". You mean by carrying my fair share and more around here? And just being a happy, fun-loving person that enjoys life and does not tick off his wife in any way?
Can I do that while still being detached? And what are going Dim/Dark, and are they applicable in this situation.
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed
