Quote: believe that withholding sex from a women causes emotional pain almost beyond the ability to endure. The rejection becomes, in many of us, self loathing...when it is NOT our problem.
This applies to men as well when we marry LD women. It is ALWAYS what have I done wrong, what is wrong with me. What could I do differently. The rejection is just as unbearable for the men, and we get it 1000's of times in our married lives, but you NEVER get used to it.
