Well, I guess I want a more objective opinion about this subject.
One time I asked my brother, who is married to a very pretty, but overweight woman is her looks turned him off sometimes. This I asked for my own experience , since I am in a SSM. He told me that it didn't . That if he had a choice in the matter he would prefer for her to be slim, but not that big of a deal. Then again , he is my brother and for what I can tell, my family genes are in the HD corner (grandpa was 93 when he died and was still active with gradma).
And please, be honest. My husband have said both things, you know? that it is not a problem and is not my looks and in another oportunity he said my looks had an impact on his lack of desire. I am really confused now, since I am on the chunky side, but not overweight.
