Buffet--This is a guy who lives in Omaha. But remember, I am happy to hit the driving range with you next time you are in town! Or play a little pool at the Upstream. I am equally bad at both, pool and golf, but I enjoy them both too. And find my ability improves slightly after a beverage or two (at least, in my mind! )
Kerry--Yep I know it will take time and I will give some new guys a chance, in time. Trust me I would love to have the opportunity to kiss someone! I have always been a fan of kissing, if I am in a relationship with someone they better we willing to be kissed at length on a pretty much daily basis.
Kat--I know what you are saying. I already got my endorphin rush from vomit guy after a few weeks of texting and talking on the phone. What a let down when I met him! And I got on match for about 10 minutes last night, and guess who IM'd me? Yup, him again. You'd think never hearing from me again after our ONE DATE back in November would give him a clue...
I also got a little excited/hopeful when R and I were hanging out and texting back in March/April. I was pretty bummed when that hit a dead end. However now I see it as for the best since we will quite possibly be working together on speech for years to come. Not good if we had dated and had a messy breakup. However a bit of friend w/kissing benefits, no expectations would still be nice!
Wii--I am in no rush. Trust me! Dan started his PA three years ago as of May, so it's been over three years since he actually 'left' me. He moved out almost 18 months ago, I started the D process almost a year ago. So even though the D has only been final for 4 months, the whole thing has been years in the making.
I am pretty much thinking that the Insanity fitness program is 60 days...and that is for my physical health.
I am thinking I will continue to read the abandonment book at night (read another 15-20 pages last night before bed) to work on my mental health.
And work on the home refi, meet with a financial advisor about my tax liabilities from alimony, etc. as well as working the Dave Ramsey plan to work on my financial health.
Church and some of the Cloud/Townsend stuff is great for my spiritual health.
So I figure the next 60 days at least, while school is out, I will work on getting all the facets of BBJ back up and running better than they have in ages. Then I will evaluate how I feel about dating somebody.
Until then, however, I am not closed-off to the option. If something comes up that gets my attention, ok. But I am not going to be desperately searching for my next 'soul mate'...
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