So, best I can tell from reading old posts, he is in a cycle that only myself or OW is going to break. I have already decided that he will have to ask for D if he wants it. No easy way out for him from me. Word has it OW is getting antsy. So, I guess the question has to be: How can I "influence" the breaking of the cycle? Or do I just keep on trying to stay distant(dark doesn't work well with him)and let him work it out? Patience, patience, patience.
I think I need a walk on the beach to ponder....yes as part of GAL & 180, I am at the beach all by myself. Never would have done that before! Poe