If you want to be all mellencholly (yeah I spelled it wrong Grit...get over it its not a tuber from Nigeria)
By tuber I assume you mean the root vegatable variety
or did you mean...
A large brass, barritone instrument and you speak with a South Boston accent?
Poe
Welcome to the funnest not-so-fun place to be.
One thing that is very diificult is to try to explain to people who have NO experience with what you are going through why you choose to do what you're doing.
Their own fear drives their thinking...
OMG! If that happend to me I'd kick his a$$ to the curb!
You derves better!
Why would you want stay with someone who would do that to you?
People are generally cowards...
That is not an insult to people who choose to do something other than what you have chosen.
It is just that it IS easier to do what they tell you you should do.
Isn't it?
People cannot fathom how much courage it takes to make the difficult choice. And...
They have no skin in the game, nothing to lose by giving you this advice.
If they don't support you find new friends...
Quothe the raven...
Nevermore...
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
