A face to face conversation may get hot and heated and over track, she may walk away. I well written letter she will read and also ask that she write back if she wants with any questions she may have or any feelings she wants to express. This actually was in a great book I read- can’t remember the name- remember the author was female- Tuppy, maybe?
And to add one more thing- if it were me- I honestly would stay away from all bars or outings that could be perceived as a "hook-up" environment. I would live a monk's life for quite a while because you would not want anything even misconstrued. It could be something as simple as a phone call from her and you are at a bar and she would instantly assume you are on the prowl, IMO. I also would answer her every email or phone call as soon as possible to show you are doing nothing deviant and include all of your email passwords and cell phone password and billing statement for her to see.
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
