Just Confronted - A Litttle Confused

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I updated my signature. And I met with her dad and was 100% honest. I told him that I loved his daughter, and I was going to fight for the marriage (in a smart way). I had no way to get my laptop there, so the video is going to have to wait until this weekend. But I will show him it. Thanks!!

I told him what she said to me, and he informed me that she totally took what he said out of context, and he would have never said it had he known she was going to hurt me with it.

Him and I shared a really moving conversation, and I told him that I wanted to see him face to face and man to man. I told him I owed him at least that much.

So the question now is do I do the GAL thing and be happy, cordial, and nice to the wife, or do I do detachment and just barely acknowledge her.

One of the reasons she had affairs is that she wanted the attention and to feel good. Should I at least throw some casual attention her way - like in passing - "hey you look good today,very nice!"