Just found out she already filed

[ImprovedRomeo]

Thanks Alice!

OK time to regroup...she just sent me an email about DD's school. Long story short we wanted to send DD to a really nice private school but since she got the temporary support orders through the court I was left with no money whatsoever even to pay her the alimony+cs. So I had my lawyer send her a letter saying that I can't afford the payments and DD will have to go to a public school unless STBXW wants to pay the tuition for the private school. This was about 3 weeks ago. Her response this morning:


Hi,
we should try and get DD's school for the fall cleared up before its too late instead of spending money on letters from the lawyers. Not that I don't love getting letters from your lawyer but that could have been 1/2 month payment on her school, just saying. Same goes when I have to have my lawyer draw up a response. It would probably be in our best interest to get together with the lawyers and just finalize everything.


So here's the irony, I was the one that asked her initially if we can come up with a settlement or we'll end up blowing DD's college tuition on the lawyers and courts. Her response was an angry, venomous email. Now she's saying what I was trying to say to her...but only after she took me to court to get the max support payments.

So help me out guys...sorry I have mental road block when I'm trying to navigate my own situation and really appreciate your guys feedback.