The OM's W has a right to know the facts and make her own decissions.
You have a right to know the facts and make your own decissions.
Keep it as business like as possible. The point is not to redeem yourself or character assasinate your estranged W.
The point is to get the unvarnished truth out and put it on the table for all the affected parties to make their own choices.
Do not violate the court order, and you shouldn't have sent the text reply. Stop making this mistake. You are letting your emotions dictate your actions.
Here is your plan:
1. Share info with OM's W. 2. Be the best parent you can be and protect your kids. 3. Be the confident, self-assured adult in what is otherwise a bad episode of the Jerry Springer Show.
Good advice
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
