The idea of finding out what the LBSer did to contribute (two to tango baby) to the failure of the marriage..isn't so the LBSer can tie themselves to a cross and dwell on it.
It is to effect change, to strive to avoid and become better.
Apologize and move on.
Doing your best is all you can do.
There is an epitaph in Boot Hill Cemetery in Tombstone, Arizona, which reads, "Here lies Jack Williams; he done his damnedest." What more can a person do? - Harry S. Truman
Last edited by Jack_Three_Beans; 06/10/1005:29 PM.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
