W was in shower and then came walking out then into the bedroom. W said
"What if I said to you, that I wanted you to invite my family over for my birthday and I want to know if we can have the house together by then?"
I wanted to make sure I heard her correctly so I said
"You want me to invite your family over the house for your birthday?"
W replied "I was going to invite them but I wanted to make sure the house was in order before then" W then gave examples of things that need to be replaced ect..
I said "It is possible but I cannot do it alone"
W said "I did not say you would have to do it alone"
I said "Just wanted to ensure that" then I told W that it is something we can accomplish...
The story behind this, her family has not seen our new home yet. Only family member of hers that had come over since our purchase is my FIL.
Did I handle this well?
Should I leave it at that and assume she is trying?
Are they any heavy hitters I can say to her that can help our cause?
Last edited by OfficerInNeed; 06/10/1005:08 PM.
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10
