Live in the Now!!

[kat727]

So who is the Omaha guy? The bartender? Or maybe someone from a dating site? I get the dating someone you know. You are in a vulnerable position and it makes it easier to put yourself out there. Just cut yourself some slack. It will have been 4 years ago this month that the bomb hit. It is a long time to have been dealing with this stuff. Just think though it has only been the last few months that I felt like I was ready to put myself out there.

I know you aren't me, but I really don't want to see you get into a relationship that turns out to be a rebound/band aid relationship. It may all seem great at first but I believe is more painful in the end because you put sooo much hope on to it. You fall for the illusion and not the reality.

Hang in there and just have fun.

kat