Yeah it was a though day. Overall if I look at the past 5 weeks of me being dark it only made our R more strained. I realize that I needed to do that, for me...but my screwed up H takes it personally and makes it sound like I'm the one that is unreasonable and that I make it difficult to communicate, he would like to be friendly...I'm the bad one.
Mila,
How are YOU doing?
I hope well. Enjoying the summer?
I am going to caution you about you KNOWING or anyone saying that they KNOW or tell you what your husband is THINKING or why he is DOING something.
This is MLC, right?
It is one of the most illogical things in the world. IF this was a sane person...even then I would catuion you against KNOWING what he was thinking or claiming to know why he does what he does.
You KNOW you...DO for you.
That is why THIS:
Quote:
I realize that I needed to do that, for me
IS SO AWESOME!
Good for you.
About your husband?
Quote:
he would like to be friendly
He still F-ing the OW?
And wants to be friendly with you?
Me? I'd do what you are doing. You aren't the bad guy Mila.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
