Originally Posted By: nvr2me
she's not really a DB person, although she has been supportive of my efforts and amazed at his turn around at this point.

I'd ask her to read the books (it can't hurt!) Then she will understand how you would like to approach your self-growth, your marriage ... your life.

J3Bs is wise ... you need to focus on what, and who, you CAN control. Work on you ... for you.

Peace
PEI

Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc