I haven't responded in awhile. Looks like a lot has changed.
Glad to see that things have gotten better. But is it good enough? I agree with everything you have said. I've followed your for a couple years now. I'm not sure what to say. It looks like she's trying but then again it doesnt. What does she want? Is she depressed? Does she feel like she is wasting her life away being married to you? If so YOU deserve better and she needs help. This is not healthy for the kids to see.
I can't remember. Did you guys ever go to Retro?
She needs to make a decision once and for all. The problem is "she thinks she knows but has no idea..." She thinks her life would have been so much better not being married and not dealing with this and that but those are all fantasies. She would eventually regret destroying the family. It sounds like she did a little of that already, but not enough to really appreciate you and her family.
