Was browsing face book and messaged OM's W. She knew who I was immediately and wanted to talk. OM has now been confirmed, apparently OM is bosses son, and is living there in the same house with them, and they all work at the same business doing home based health care.
OM Wife was very nice and told me a lot about the situation. Apparently OM has been spending all his money on WAW and not helping with his own 2 kids. OM is still married and his wife was under the impression they were taking a break as they are not legally seperated.
OM Wife was very very angry about this and has custody of their 2 kids. She wants to meet up and chat, as I told her about WAW's violent past, money troubles, manipulative tactics. And she said the family is noticing her weird behavior and feel that she is using them, i think this could be true.
OM apparently told wife they were just friends but she does not believe it and now I do not either. OM W is saying she probably will not reconcile and also get restraining order regarding their 2 kids against my WAW. I told her I would meet with her to help bust this affair as I think this is sick.
Oh yea, WAW has contacted me and wants to talk, said she will not snitch, but hell i guess i cannot be naive about this. She messaged 3-4 times and well i responded that she could call me and well Id record it. I'm not gonna initiate breaking no contact.
Question is what should I do regarding OM Wife? Do I help her with busting the affair? She wants MIL to know everything as MY WAW told many lies about me, said I was abusive, crazy etc...
Also, regarding WAW she is so deep down in the fog she is wrecking another marriage. I still love her, but man this is tough I need ADVICE.
M 36 W 29 Together 2 1/2 years married 14 months Daughter 15 months Bomb 4/22/10 Separated since 4/25/10 OM 6/10/10 Hopeful, but moving on
