Remember this process can go as fast and as slow as YOU want it to. Depending on what state you are in it can take up to 2 years. My advice is to figure out what YOU want and what is best for your children.

If she is willing to file and pay her attorney. Great! If she is willing to split custody with no support. Beautiful! If not you get a lawyer to fight or just go to court and plead to the judge yourself. The courts want the children to be in the best environment possible. Take the pressure off my letting your WAW do the work. Maybe suggest you go to mediation to come up with the best agreement.

The worst thing to do is make EMOTIONAL decisions. Slow it down if you want to. You cant CONTROL her you cant FORCE her to do what you want. YOU can slow down the process or make sure do all the work. Just be nice and agreeable. It's all talk until you get in front of a judge.

PMA